After 21 years of marriage, my husband has been unable to get an erection during sex since his early thirties. Recently, he doesn't even get morning wood anymore. With his condition, enjoying real sex has become difficult, and he can't penetrate when it matters most. I still love sex—I love synchronizing our breaths, immersing ourselves in each other, and giving our entire bodies and souls to reach that peak together. I love showing my husband how I look during sex; I want him to see me moaning as I impale myself on a cock, drooling in ecstasy. Maybe things would go a little better if he watched videos of me while we have sex. Even when we've tried using adult videos just for fun, we've managed to get halfway there.