They say the key to seducing a woman who has a boyfriend is approaching her at just the right moment when things aren't going well for her, but she'll never tell you when that moment is. That's why the golden rule with women waiting for a boyfriend is to keep talking to them—without being too pushy—until the opportunity arises. My persistence finally paid off with Ayano. A girl who receives hundreds of thousands of yen each month from her boyfriend, she was especially appealing as someone who'd still be up for fun even when short on cash. I called her at month's end, learned about her growing dissatisfaction with her boyfriend, gradually steered our conversation toward something more intimate, and soon had her clothes off—enjoying her bare and unrestrained.