What kind of sex do you have with your boyfriend? He's not really into sex and we rarely do it, so we only have ordinary sex. Have you ever cheated? I was in a friends-with-benefits relationship with my ex, but I didn't really think of it as cheating. The difference between my boyfriend and my ex is that my boyfriend is submissive, while my ex was dominant. What's your favorite kind of sex? Since I'm basically submissive, I enjoy it more when toys are used on me. Also, I feel much more satisfied when it lasts about two hours.