My wife constantly complained about the man living upstairs, who worked in a questionable business. She was frustrated about littering in shared spaces, improper garbage disposal times, and his lack of participation in neighborhood association activities. Being a pacifist, I kept telling her not to stir up trouble. But starting in spring, my wife was appointed as an officer in the local women's association, and she went to the man's apartment on behalf of the group to lodge a formal complaint. Later, I found out that during that visit, she ended up having sex with him.