My wife kept complaining every day about a well-groomed man living in the same apartment building. Issues had piled up—littering in shared spaces, disputes over garbage disposal rules, and neighborhood association activities. I, sticking to my pacifist stance, kept soothing her by saying, "Don't make too much of a fuss." But this year, after my wife was appointed an officer in the women's association, she went to confront the neighbor on behalf of the group. It wasn't until later that I realized the shocking truth—she had ended up having sex with him against her will.